This morning in Palm Beach County, Florida most of us awoke to a heavy sky with warm rain drizzling throughout the morning, afternoon and evening. As mother of two active little boys I immediately realized this was going to be a challenging day as I sought various indoor activities.
The local public library was a good start to the gray blanket of a day but it was short-lived as the new activity for the boys became racing through the stacks and taking out as many books as possible. We tried to visit a few folks that we haven’t seen in nearly two decades since we were in the neighborhood by the library but they were still in bed around 10-11am (I will not deny I felt jealousy at that moment in time). I was heading for the local zoo when the youngest passed out so the trip became drive-thru subs for lunch while giving my older son a car tour of where mommy used to go to school and other highlights that he may or may not recall later.
Fast forward to the late afternoon where we’ve found ourselves back home and the cozy play inside has now escalated to dangerous trapeze tricks off cribs, beds and other not-so-safe heights. Having recalled our car tour earlier in the day, there was a green flag on the beach when we made a hairpin trip to see the water. So there we were at just past 2:30pm and I was changing everyone into their bathing suits and grabbing a light bag with towels, provisions and toys.
We arrived at one of our favorite beach parks and it was deserted with only 2 or 3 cars in a lot that usually was filled to capacity at any given day with sunshine–contrast that with the muddy sky that couldn’t commit to a steady rain like an emotional person that isn’t sure they need to cry or not.
Unfazed by this blatant not-beach-day, I got everyone out and across A1A to the shore. We were pleasantly surprised by the other diehards present on the beach that truly did have a nice green flag flapping at the life guard tent.
We proceeded to enjoy the next few hours building in the sand and tearing down that magical section where the land and water kiss again and again. Life is full of satisfying surprises like this if we can manage to look past what we think is the “normal” mode and just go for immersing ourselves in the moment even when it means getting caked with sand on a drizzle of an afternoon in Florida.
The shells and rocks were also lackluster in appearance and selection but that didn’t stop us from tossing them into the shore break and tearing apart the “shipping” canals we were building with these shards and coral bits. We can’t allow ourselves to be so bound by what we think is the status quo or the right equation.
Today’s strangling conventional wisdom would say: no sun and gray, rainy day equals no beach time in south Florida. I’m happy to have found out with my boys that this wisdom is unfound and there is a nice crowd of other fellow humans who were able to embrace the joy of the beach day out regardless of the messy precipitation.
R.V.S.Bean
Juno Beach: Pictured Above On Another Day Unlike Today’s Gray Weather!
SAVE THE BUTTERFLIES: Why It Matters What You Do
May 17, 2012 by ramonabean
SAVE THE BUTTERFLIES! : Why It Matters What You Do
INTRODUCTION: Just One of Nature’s Many Philosophy Lessons
It was another hectic day, one of those days that it seems there is no end to movement by vehicle or by foot. As I exited off Interstate 95 I was held up at the red light and as I resigned to this unavoidable wait I looked to my left where the grassy field was alive with activity. There were little yellow butterflies dancing in the air over the flowers that were some sort of weed by their appearance and random placement. I chuckled to myself wondering why I was suddenly paying attention to this seemingly useless enterprise. After a couple more moments, a lesson in life began to affect my mind as I noticed how the butterflies not only traveled in a dizzy flight to each flower, they also interacted with each other: sometimes just two, sometimes three or more and then they would go about their own business again. How interesting that they would correspond not just to mate but to check in with each other as they went about their mundane grind to pollinate. For more random facts by the experts: http://www.fs.fed.us/wildflowers/pollinators/animals/butterflies.shtml
DOMESTIC: Where Are We Americans?
It seems like the past 15 years or more have been filled with anxiety concerning finances and national security. We’ve been saturated with fast-success moments like the “dot.com” burgeoning era following the launch of the World Wide Web only to have the “tech bubble” burst. Y2K was the big talk leading up to New Year’s 2000 and then by September 11, 2001 our secular society was shocked by the actions of people that truly made no sense. With the stock market being too uncertain, the housing market became the new bargaining tool for quick riches and today most Americans are affected one way or another by the housing market bust of the mid-Aughts.
Our political landscape has been entertaining to say the least, I have admitted more than once in my public writing that I was an employee of the former U.S. Representative Mark A. Foley. I don’t regret it and I will always say that he was a great congressman for our Florida district 16 and his bipartisan way of working on the Hill kept me having faith in the system of government we have in place. Nevertheless, the personal and ill-acted professional antics of many politicians have rocked the public’s conscience in the past several years. We have triumphed in having the first biracial President of the United States that was elected in 2008. Yet as we approach this year’s election our jaded multimedia is still focusing on subjects that are not important and petty. It doesn’t help that we’ve also had unfortunate voting decisions like the recent one in North Carolina concerning gay marriage: really folks, it’s the year 2012 and we have kids coming out of college with degrees having extreme difficulty finding jobs they can enjoy and thrive in—in my humble opinion, whether homosexual or bisexual individuals decide to marry should literally be up to them, their families and their faiths. I guess it’s just there’s such more critical issues for our American society to sort through like our undoubted rising debt, inflation and general lack of cohesive national strategy of what our country wants to better itself in like level of education, business direction (should we be more supportive of fair trade, environmentally friendly, innovative energy sources) and the list can go on nearly endlessly.
The butterflies reminded me that even you and I if we seem to be just the “little players” on this busy world stage, we still very much have a major effect on the flow of things in how we relate to others in our field of range. When I go to the grocery store I do my best to engage with everyone I come in contact with-especially the cashier- you never know how that simple, genuine chat with another human being may bless the both of you. The relationships you maintain with family and friends is an obvious example of how dynamic we can be with each other and how many times we don’t even see the true aftermath of those countless interactions.
So the economy here in America has us all repeating the same refrain: things are tough, the economy is hurting…but guess what? You do have the power to help those businesses down the road from you. You can start your own little business with friends to follow a passion and serve a need in the demand for supply locally. How about that person you know who makes something from hand and sells it? What about that family restaurant that’s been on the corner forever? Truly if we all began to look at each other and pay a little more mind it would send a ripple effect through the American economy that may not send people into wealthy categories but at least encourage hearts and stoke more activity in business and progress. As humans we crave and need each other and in America we are diverse and often decisive but we remain somewhat invincible when we really stick together UNITED.
INTERNATIONAL: My Greece-Ellada Mou
I am not very well informed on the specifics of the political parties warring with each other in Greece at this moment as the Greek government and “powers that be” try to sort out what is the next elections plan for the country. What I do understand is the general opinion of those in America who feel that Greece is a nation that was irresponsible in its fiscal policy and lacks direction in its own national strategy. How very similar this sounds as the United States and many other countries around the globe are wrestling with these same issues.
Beyond the story told by video footage and photographs at Greek hotspots like Syntagma Square, it depends on who you speak with in Greece as to how violent and unruly things have become in everyday life there. There is definitely no argument if you summed up the population as being emotionally drained and financially struggling. What can we do?
If you’re Greek or American I think the answer is simple and powerful if everyone participates. In Greece, this time of uncertainty and fiscal pain can be paralyzing but if could also be empowering in driving people to do something completely different. The country is known for its tourism appeal but if you’ve gone to some of the shorelines, especially south and east of Athens, you’ll find a disgusting amount of garbage. If there are no beach cleanups, why not start? It would be great way to get young people involved, aware and build pride in the physical state of their nation. When it comes to economy, why not start small with local business and build out with companies that can help provide exports like organic feta, olives and wine (a major fad in current foodies’ cycles)? As for the Greeks abroad, we can help our mother nation by assisting friends and family in financial and emotional support. Again, the reality is even the smallest player can affect the general direction of a nation if we only start with each other, those around us whether or not we know them personally.
FINAL WORD: Butterflies Live It Fully
There are many kinds of butterflies and they all have different average life spans: the common thread in truth is that on average their life spans are short in comparison to many other living beings and to us humans a mere blink of an eye. The Monarch is a popular variety and in American can live from 2-6 weeks depending on their generation: http://www.fs.fed.us/wildflowers/pollinators/animals/butterflies.shtml
Either way, these half-dancing, half-flying creatures live their life to the fullest regardless of how perilous or repetitive their respective journeys. As people we are certainly much more complex in our composition but I think we have the tendency to over-complicate in our mind. There is a shot at true happiness in our daily life if we only engage fully every step of the way—even on those boring or ruthless days when we wonder how we’ll make it to the end of the day.
The light turned green and I was on my way again to the next task, the next unexpected “checking-in” with whoever came in my path as I fulfilled my personal “flight”.
R.V.S.Bean
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